Making more space for stillness

Making more space for stillness

Dear Friends,

This week we will meet Monday from 7-8:30PM EST in person at our meditation space (3812 Northampton Street NW), Wednesday morning from 7-8AM EST online, and Friday 12-1PM EST online.

I’ve been thinking about the silence and stillness that we need in order to develop awareness and touch joy. Thich Nhat Hanh (Thay) has said:

The more space we make for stillness and silence, the more we have to give both to ourselves and to others.

Before I went on my 6-week retreat to Plum Village in October, I had a pretty strong habit of listening to podcasts anytime I wasn’t listening to anything else. For example, when I walked the dogs, when I showered, when I drove, etc.

Honoring our Spiritual Ancestor Thich Nhat Hanh

Honoring our Spiritual Ancestor Thich Nhat Hanh

This week we will meet Monday from 7-8:30PM EST online, Wednesday morning from 7-8AM in person at our meditation space (3812 Northampton Street NW), and Friday 12-1PM EST in person at our meditation space.

Camille will facilitate, and shares:

Two years ago, our mindfulness teacher, Thich Nhat Hanh (Thay) transitioned out of his body at the age of 95, after spending most of his life sharing mindfulness practices with peace, understanding and love. After the two year mourning period, we now recognize Thay as our spiritual ancestor. In a ceremony later this month in Vietnam, Thay will also be acknowledged as the fifth patriarch of Từ Hiếu Temple – his root temple.

On Monday evening, our community will gather together in meditation, chanting, and sharing, to honor and celebrate Thay. The peace and joy he shared with us - his students and spiritual descendants - will be passed on to all around us. From Plum Village: “The calm, clarity, and peace we can generate today are both a manifestation of Thay’s love and our expression of our spiritual support and love for him.”

Touching the Earth, Letting Go

Touching the Earth, Letting Go

Dear friends,

This week we will meet Monday evening in person at our meditation space (3812 Northampton Street NW) from 7-8:30PM EST, Wednesday morning online from 7-8AM, and Friday online from 12-1PM EST.

Camille will facilitate.

This Monday evening we will share together the practice of Touching the Earth. It is a beautiful practice offered regularly in Plum Village centers around the world. The script of the touchings is below along with a short video of an introduction of Thich Nhat Hanh’s (Thay’s) on Touching the Earth.

This practice is about “emptying ourselves” as we bow down to touch the earth in order to make life possible in the present moment. We can begin to release ideas, stories, notions, anger, attachments, and the ideas that we and this world we know are permanent. When we touch the earth we can empty ourselves and surrender these ideas and any unwholesome qualities in us.

I love and relish in the Earth touchings and have much gratitude as I am reminded that I have the support of my ancestors, family, friends, teachers, sangha, the earth, and all who have walked and worked the lands in sharing their love, understanding, nourishment, caring and healing with me and all the world.

The worry habit

The worry habit

Dear Sangha,

Last year in January, I had the opportunity to facilitate and talk about the beginning of a new year as a chance for renewal and hope. I felt it was important to try to be optimistic and open.

As we enter 2024, I find myself much more anxious and worried about so much in my personal/family life, my career and most importantly the despairing state of the world. My anxiety has been, for the first time, affecting my health and well-being. And I’m surrounded by friends, family members and colleagues who are also suffering from stress, anxiety and fear.

So I started to research Thich Nhat Hanh’s (Thầy) writings on anxiety and worrying. As usual, he has much to say, which I found to be very helpful.

Aligning our intentions with our most beautiful aspirations

Aligning our intentions with our most beautiful aspirations

Dear Friends,

This week we will meet Monday evening in person at our meditation space (3812 Northampton Street NW) from 7-8:30PM EST, Wednesday morning online from 7-8AM, and Friday online from 12-1PM EST.

On Monday we will enjoy a guided meditation on letting go of anything we don’t want to carry into the new year, and setting our mindful intentions for 2024. Our meditation will serve as a gentle guide in aligning our intentions with actions and embracing positive changes in our lives.

The new year often brings lots of resolutions, goals, and aspirations – a natural response to the chance for a new beginning. Yet, in the rush to change or improve our lives, we might lose sight of the profound beauty and completeness of the present moment.

Intoxicants: The True Cost

Intoxicants: The True Cost

Dear friends,

This week we will meet Monday from 7-8:30PM EST online, Wednesday morning from 7-8AM in person at our meditation space (3812 Northampton Street NW), and Friday 12-1PM EST in person.

Susie will facilitate on Monday evening, December 25.

Please join us as we read the Five Mindfulness Trainings together with a focus on the fifth mindfulness training - Nourishment and Healing.

We have a line item in our family budget for drinking. We don’t call it “drinking”, we call it “food & beverage”. In January of this year, I was sipping an expensive wine at a Georgetown restaurant with a large group of our best friends. Something hit me partway through the meal, something Godlike and undeniable. I had to close my eyes and be with this feeling. Something was telling me this was wrong for my body. I could hear my friends around me having a great time, and when they noticed my eyes were closed, I heard their questions to me, “Susie, are you ok?” “Is she ok? I don’t know.” etc. I held up my hand in a “wait” motion. I just needed to sit with this and hear what I needed to hear. After a couple of moments, I opened my eyes, and didn’t take another sip. I got sick later that evening and felt much better physically, but thought about all that money we just spent on the lovely food and the wine. Is there a line item for that?

Interbeing and Blooming

Interbeing and Blooming

Dear friends, This week Annie and Andy will co-facilitate and we will meet Monday evening in person at our meditation space (3812 Northampton Street NW) from 7-8:30PM EST, Wednesday morning online from 7-8AM, and Friday online from 12-1PM EST.

We will reflect on one of the central understandings of Thich Nhat Hanh’s (Thay) teachings, Interbeing. This is a word that Thay created to reflect his insight that nothing can exist by itself. We depend upon everything else to be, or rather, to interbe.

This simple - but not easy - insight is the foundation for our practice. If we really know that we are a single cell in the cosmos, not a separate and lonely creature, we will live with more ease and feel greater belonging to all of life. Knowing that we interare releases our need to run after external things because we realize that we already have, and in fact are, everything we need.

The power of sangha

The power of sangha

Dear Thay, dear friends,

This week we will meet Monday from 7-8:30PM EST online, Wednesday morning from 7-8AM in person at our meditation space (3812 Northampton Street NW), and Friday 12-1PM EST online.

Marie will facilitate on Monday evening.

Over the last few months, I’ve been struck by the power of sangha. I had a health crisis, and while I didn’t attend sangha in traditional ways (meaning in body or via Zoom), that didn’t matter. I felt held and supported. I did not practice sitting or walking meditation, and that didn’t matter either. I knew the sangha body was practicing, at our sangha and at other sanghas. I rested into the hammock of this knowing, and oh did that feel good!

Reverently, Slowly, Evenly: Bringing Calm to the Holidays

Reverently, Slowly, Evenly: Bringing Calm to the Holidays

Dear Friends,

This week we will meet Monday from 7-8:30PM EST in person at our meditation space (3812 Northampton Street NW), Wednesday morning from 7-8AM EST online, and Friday 12-1PM EST online.

This is a newcomer’s week, so if you want a little extra instruction or to ask a question, please meet Annie at the OHMC meditation space at 6:15 PM. Sign up here

We will explore one of the basic practices taught by Thich Nhat Hanh (Thay) and one at the heart of Plum Village life – slowing down. In this upcoming holiday season, we may be pushed to move very fast, but we can find ways to resist the rushing and find more ease.

Thay wrote: "Drink your tea slowly and reverently, as if it is the axis on which the world earth revolves – slowly, evenly, without rushing toward the future; live the actual moment. Only this moment is life.”

How often do we do anything reverently, slowly, and evenly? And what happens when we do?

During my most recent visit to Plum Village, I had the time to practice slowing down in each activity and found a lot of benefits.

Loving speech and deep listening during the holidays

Loving speech and deep listening during the holidays

Dear Friends,

This week we will meet Monday from 7-8:30PM EST online, Wednesday morning from 7-8AM EST in person at our meditation space (3812 Northampton Street NW), and Friday 12-1PM EST online.

Annie will facilitate on Monday evening. After we enjoy guided deep relaxation, walking meditation and silent sitting meditation, we will read the Five Mindfulness Trainings together and focus on the Fourth Training: Loving Speech and Deep Listening.

The Fourth Mindfulness Training reminds us of all of the suffering that can be caused by speaking unmindfully and not listening well to others. During the holidays, we often spend time with our families, whether chosen or blood. We can reflect on how we might practice loving speech and deep listening using the Fourth Mindfulness Training…

War and Peace Within

War and Peace Within

Dear friends,

This week we will meet in person (3812 Northampton Street NW in DC) on Monday 7-8:30PM EDT, online on Wednesday morning from 7-8AM, and online on Friday 12-1PM.

On Monday evening, Camille will facilitate.

Plum Village, the practice center in France founded by Thich Nhat Hanh (Thay), has sought to create an environment where people can learn to “live in harmony with one another and with the Earth.” On their website they recently shared that the conflict in the Middle East and in many other places in the world are “painful to civilians on both sides and they appeal to all combatants to put an immediate stop to killing and acts of violence.” The Buddha said that “hatred cannot respond to hatred; only love and compassion can respond to hatred.” Thay says “there is no way to peace, peace is the way.”

I often sit these days of late with feeling the pain, suffering and despair of others all over the world. It is exhausting and I often feel depleted. What helps me is to be reminded by Thay to first recognize the suffering within myself and to transform the unwholesome seeds of anger, hatred or violence into seeds of peace, joy, and loving kindness. I take time to breathe in and breathe out, and then in that moment when I can cultivate those positive qualities in myself, I can begin to generate more compassion to my family and all beings who suffer.

Water meditations and contemplations

Water meditations and contemplations

Dear friends,

This week we will meet online on Monday 7-8:30PM EST, in person on Wednesday morning from 7-8AM EST, and online on Friday 12-1PM EST.

Magda will facilitate on Monday evening. The Chesapeake Earth Holders and members of Virginia, Maryland and Washington, DC sanghas will join us to celebrate Native American Heritage Month in a gathering dedicated to water mindfulness and contemplation. Maggie Morris, a member of the Chesapeake Earth Holders and the Cloud Floating Free sangha from Charlottesville, Virginia, will conduct a water blessing. Please bring a cup of tea - or any other beverage of your choice - to our gathering. You may also bring water you hold sacred or dear for any reason.

THE SCENT OF WATER IN THE DESERT

My reflections on water begin in an unlikely place: the desert of New Mexico. Recently, as I was practicing walking meditation through the stone labyrinth of Ghost Ranch, my sanctuary, I thought back to my conversation with Hollis, a kind young biologist I had met on a previous visit. Hollis had shown me formations of precious cryptobiotic soil, a sign of new life in the desert. He also showed me a blue sage that was growing next to the labyrinth. Encountering this plant in the desert was special, as it requires ample water in its early stages.  As I thought back to that day in Ghost Ranch I looked around me and realized that I was in the middle of a yellow wild flower oasis bordered by cottonwoods whose leaves had turned bright yellow in the fall.

The Healing Power of Prayer

The Healing Power of Prayer

Dear friends,

This week we will meet in person (3812 Northampton Street NW in DC) on Monday 7-8:30PM EDT, online on Wednesday morning from 7-8AM, and online on Friday 12-1PM.

On Monday evening, Camille will facilitate.

Thich Nhat Hanh (Thay) says our daily life is like a prayer. He also says praying is like an energy that we can touch at any time. He says if we are in touch with reality in the present moment, then “when you practice mindfulness while sitting, walking, cooking, washing, you don’t feel that you waste your life. You are living every moment of your life deeply. Your life becomes a prayer. Much happiness and peace result from that kind of living.”

Praying has been always been part of my life but has sometimes been elusive to me - not always sure about what I was looking or asking for in prayer. In the last few weeks I have been better able to bring prayer into my life in the present moment in “body, speech and mind” with the help of “meditation, concentration and insight” or “mindfulness” as Thay describes. With mindfulness Thay shares we can “produce the energy of faith and love necessary to change a difficult situation."

Taming our Habit Energy

Taming our Habit Energy

Dear friends,

This week we will meet online on Monday 7-8:30PM EDT, in person (3812 Northampton Street NW in DC) on Wednesday morning from 7-8AM, and online on Friday 12-1PM.

On Monday evening, Ellen will facilitate. Our focus will be on Thich Nhat Hanh’s important teachings about our “habit energy.” We’ll watch a very short video from Thich Nhat Hanh that helps us recognize our habit energy and how to compassionately tend to it.

This is a very timely topic for me. The world seems frayed, pained, pulled apart and almost at its limits these days. Pain and tension seem to be everywhere. Tragedies abound. For me, that’s somehow made my habit energies intensify. Maybe it’s a false sense of being ok if I’m busy.

The Third Mindfulness Training: True Love

The Third Mindfulness Training: True Love

Dear sangha friends,

This week we will meet on Monday evening in person 7-8:30PM at our meditation space (3812 Northampton Street NW), Wednesday morning from 7-8AM online, and Friday 12-1PM online.

On Monday evening, we will read the Third Mindfulness Training: True Love, and share our reflections on how this Training plays out in our own lives.

The Third Precept of Buddhism originally was “Refrain From Sexual Misconduct.” With great wisdom and compassion, Thay renamed the Third Mindfulness Training, “True Love” to reflect an expanded perspective on the third precept. Last year, the training was additionally revised to be more compassionate and inclusive of our LGBTQIA+ siblings.

Nowadays, we find ourselves living in a highly sexualized society, where we, and particularly our young people, are exposed to pressures to conform in terms of dress, speech and behavior. At the same time, there is often a cloud of shame and fear that prevents us from speaking openly about this topic. I hope that we may come together on Monday evening to share openly and respectfully about how we as mindfulness practitioners respond to the teachings embodied in this Training.

OHMC is hosting 2 contributors to a new book reflecting on Thay’s teachings

OHMC is hosting 2 contributors to a new book reflecting on Thay’s teachings

Dear friends, 

This week we will meet online on Monday 7-8:30PM EDT, in-person (3812 Northampton Street NW) on Wednesday morning from 7-8AM, and also online on Friday 12-1PM.

On Monday evening, we will host two special guests - Joann Malone, friend of the Washington Mindfulness Community, and Eliza King, friend of Still Water Mindfulness Practice Center - to talk about their contributions to the new book Tears Become Rain: Stories of Transformation and Healing Inspired by Thich Nhat Hanh, edited by Jeanine Cogan and Mary Hillebrand (Parallax Press).  

Susie will facilitate. 

About the book: 32 mindfulness practitioners around the world reflect on encountering the extraordinary teachings of Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh, who passed away in January 2022, exploring themes of coming home to ourselves, healing from grief and loss, facing fear, and building community and belonging.

Learning from our challenging relationships

Learning from our challenging relationships

This week we will meet in person on 7-8:30PM at our meditation space (3812 Northampton Street NW), Wednesday morning from 7-8AM online, and Friday 12-1PM online.

Annie will co-facilitate with her friend and guest facilitator Dr. Deidre Combs on Monday evening, October 9th. 

“When you begin to see that your enemy is suffering, that is the beginning of insight..” – Thich Nhat Hanh

Across the spiritual traditions we are counseled to be grateful for those with whom we may not agree. The challenging people in our lives can be stressful and even dangerous, yet the Buddha taught that our worst enemies can be our best teachers. In fact, there is a story about a Buddhist monastery in which there was a monk who the other monks all disliked and found difficult. Finally, after many years of disharmony, the difficult monk decided to leave. Surprisingly, the abbot of the monastery went out and found the monk and begged him to come back.

Linking Dharma and Tarot: Zen teacher and Tarot expert Esther Freinkel Tishman joins us Monday night

Linking Dharma and Tarot: Zen teacher and Tarot expert Esther Freinkel Tishman joins us Monday night

Dear Friends,

This week we will meet online on Monday 7-8:30PM,  in-person (3812 Northampton Street NW) on Wednesday morning from 7-8AM, and also in person on Friday 12-1PM.

On Monday evening we will have a very exciting guest teacher, Esther Freinkel Tishman, coming to us by way of sangha friend Andy Richman. 

Esther is a Zen teacher, Tarot expert, interfaith chaplain and mindfulness instructor (her full bio is below). 

Esther will be uniquely bringing together mindfulness practice and Tarot card reading! How can we use this ancient art to deepen our awareness and understanding? 

Esther’s work is about “stress reduction, mindfulness training and life path discernment” and she will be sharing with us about what she calls The Dharma of Tarot:

Tarot’s origins are modest and unspectacular. Today’s 78-card deck, used for everything from spell-casting to self-help, emerged simply as a pack of playing cards in Renaissance Italy. But all the same - perhaps even because of its modest origin - the Tarot offers a powerful dharma. It’s imagery and structure echoes Buddhist teachings regarding self, interdependence and emptiness.

Happiness is Already Here

Happiness is Already Here

Dear Friends,

This week we will meet in person on 7-8:30PM at our meditation space (3812 Northampton Street NW), Wednesday morning from 7-8AM online, and Friday 12-1PM online.

Annie will facilitate on Monday evening and we will read the Five Mindfulness Trainings together and focus on the Second training: True Happiness.

In this training (full text below), we are reminded that suffering is created when we steal, exploit or oppress others, which we do when we forget that we “already have more than enough conditions for happiness.” We don’t need to grasp or push away anything when we recognize that this moment is already enough. 

Breathing and Walking: The how and why of basic meditation practices

Breathing and Walking: The how and why of basic meditation practices

Dear Friends.

This week we will meet on Monday evening online 7-8:30PM, Wednesday morning from 7-8AM in person at our meditation space (3812 Northampton Street NW), and Friday 12-1PM online.

Annie will facilitate on Monday evening and shares:

This week we will come back to reflect on the basics of mindfulness practice as taught by Thich Nhat Hanh. What are some of the basic practices and why and how do we practice sitting meditation, following the breath, deep relaxation, walking meditation, listening to the bell, and dharma sharing? 

Annie will share some techniques for our practice as well as what obstacles and outcomes we might encounter. And we will reflect together on the challenges and joys of our practice, including any questions you might have about mindfulness and meditation.